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Monday, July 30, 2007

Reason Usher called off the Wedding..


According to ET News, Usher called off his Wedding this past weekend, because his mother refused to attend. He could not get married without the person who is in fact his mother and father all in one. They spent so much money for this wedding already. He and his groomsmen were going to wear Armani and she was going to wear Monique Luhllier. But with the scrutiny as heavy as it has been for Temaka and Usher, it is easy to see why their decisions are clouded.
I feel bad for Tameka and Usher, they are humans and humans fall in love. Usher likes older girls, Chilli is 36 and Tameka is 38, big deal. He may be losing someone he might just be the most happy with. So what he is Usher? They both deserve the best. We set others higher at times, when we are all suppose to be equal. Why is he too good for her and not the other way around? Who knows this chick personally to be so mean to her?
I wonder if this girl looked different, (Hollywood Standards of beauty) if she would be so bashed like this? I have seen forums that suggested he should have gotten with Beyonce. Are these people cartoon characters? She is pretty to me, Oh because she has 3 kids and was married? Is she the first or will she be the last one is similar situation? I think not. As long as they are happy, I say let them be. And as long as Usher keeps bringing the heat. The haters have given him so much materials to sing about on his next Record. Well pregnant Tameka is in the hospital today, yeah surprised.
Goodluck to them both. What do you guys think?

10 comments:

jemmy said...

No cause 4 alarm, Usher will still marry Tameka (sounds nigerian) He respects his Mom ..... I believe his mother will eventually calm down and they will get married, they are still together inspite of all the talks. people will always talk. what they've failed 2 realize is that beauty is more than skin..... hope his mom cools down with this action and allow her son the right to live his life & to love...

jadedjune said...

i must say i gave usher a new kind of respect when i saw the girl he was marrying.....u wud have thot that he'd go for a model type girl, but i guess not....i hope they work out their problems......

SET said...

@ JEMMY, I KNOW RIGHT.

@ JADEDJ, I AGREE, THE BOY IS NOT A CHILDISH BOY. HE IS A MAN WITH SENSE.

Bella said...

I think that its sad that Usher's mother won't respect his choice in who he wants to marry...you can't choose who you fall in love with...:)

Vera Ikeji said...

Please let's be truthful to ourselves. None of us would be over the moon if our brother is marrying someone who 10 years older than our brother or someone who already has 3 kids(this is Usher's first marriage, if it was his 2nd ,then no cause for alarm), a woman who has no respect for ur mum, who causes problems between ur brother and everyone close to him. Let's be honest with ourselves, please.
She has bn causing unnecessary aggravations between Usher and so many people he loves. That's not how it should be, if she wants to stay with him and make him happy, she should repsect his mum and everyone close to him. You can marry and replace as many wives or husbands as we want, but we can never replace our mums. Usher made the right decision by wanting his mum at his wedding, cos she has always bn there for him, thru thick and thin. Blood is thicker than water. "Do unto others what u want to be done to you".

My 2 cents said...

I second vera, I have a son and I want to be at his wedding. I pity the heifer that wants to mess with that equation. Never gonna happen that much I know.

nadine said...

i am highly upset to know that he fired the person that made him as famous as he is today for someone that is out for his goods. the number one rule is that if your mother is not doing any wrong by you then why let her go over your girlfriend. i can't believe that chick is also his manager. he needs to fire her and get his mother back b/c she is going to take everything that he has. he is already giving her too much access. she is pushing all of this on him due to that she is hitting 40 and she needs security. she needs to find someone within her age and stop trying to have all these kids b/c that is how she is living so comfortably. chilli would never had done the things that tameka has done. you don't come into someone's home and break up their family. usher has a strong relationship with his mother so is she breaking that up. JEALOUSY AND MONEY HUNGRY!!!! i feel bad for him right now b/c now he has to deal with her due to their child. i have been a fan since "can you get wit it" and i will continue to be his fan. why didn't he stay with chilli?

Uzo said...

Somehow, i get bad vibes off Tameka. Whoch is why i think Usher is better off. True love doesnt try to ostracize. From all reports, everyone close to Usher doesnt approve including his godfather Ben Vereen whi is older. There has to be something to it. And then the arrest warrants and the latest statement from mTameka's sister (maybe money hungry who knows) just scares me.

All these objections deserve to be faced and then and only then after he is use that those objections mean nothing should this union go ahead.

I just feel very bad vibes from/about her

Daddy's Girl said...

I agree with Uzo, I get bad vibes off Tameka. Why have so many people been cut off from Usher because of her? Why is there so much wahala and drama surrounding her? There's no smoke without fire, I don't think it's possible that the whole world has just risen against her because of her looks or whatever (I actually think she is attractive). It's not just his mother (although that's pretty serious) who's been cut off from Usher because of her - two of his long-term staff have resigned in the past few weeks.
I don't think his mother would want to be an obstacle to his happiness, after all, she has played a huge role in his success AND supported him while he dated other older women like Chili (who she still gets along very well with) and Naomi. She has known Tameka for years, don't forget, it's not like Usher just woke up one day and brought her home. She must have some reasons for feeling the way she does.
But maybe I am just being over-suspicious. Maybe they'll be very happy together. Who knows? If they stay together, I REALLY hope it all works out great for them. But I certainly wouldn't like to bet on their odds.

kofo said...

"i get bad vibes from tameka"- if only usher would get to read this and wow,if he actually cares about the bad vibes you are all getting from her online and thru magazines-i'm quite show none of the vibers have been within 10 yards of her to even sniff a vibe-
as for Vera,yeah it sounds all pretty saying she must respect our brother,she is 10 years older-sheesh women are really their own worst enemies, are you forgetting that the same way you are going gung-ho is the same way ur boyfriend/husband's sisters might be and then we wld be expected to feel sympathy for you then?
Is any of us going to live with them in their house or hold their hands when they are sick or pay their bills, NO, so the choice is really theirs, you may not like it(i.e his actual immediate family,not all the vibe sniffers) but you'll just have to respect it- when all is said and done who really cares who usher marries???